Tell them what your mom and her boyfriend are doing to you and they should get you to your dad. So good luck to you and I hope you end up with your dad! Go to court or tell someone who can help you, explain to them what your dad is doing to you and you should end up with her mother. If you do court, make sure you explain how living with your mom will help you.
Good luck and stay strong! Hi im Ella im 13, and no my parents dont abuse me but they are devorced and i feel that me and my mom dont get along ever she is always yelling and i am always yelling but when i am at my dads house he sometimes makes me cry when he screams and i tell hime that he screames alot but he dosent listen to what i have to say and when erer i try to tell him something he ignores me, i dont like my dads house because at night he is always on the phone with some ladie that he is friends with and they talk legit every night and my room is kinda by his but he still talks really louad, and i cant sleep that good and matter the fact i still share a room with my little 10 year old brother who never gets yelled at and he coppies me on everything but i am always to blame.
I also dhare a room at my moms which is far from my school and really imbarrising… i dont know what to do because i always get into fight with the both of them and sometimes i just want to live with my dad because i feel like he is less mean and he is still strict but he still lets me hangout with my friends when i ask.
But my mom tells me that i cant hangout with my friends all the time but my friends make me happy unlike my parents who are really naggie and the ovi dont know this because they dont always listen to what i say. Counselors can talk to your parents for you and help you out, so I recommend that.
It can get better! And it will! If your mother is abusive, then you have a better chance of ending up with your dad. Try to go to court with your dad or an adult you trust and explain to them that you would rather be with your dad and say why. A counselor, teacher, anyone. Particularly a counselor since they can talk to your parents for you and help. Just try to seek help. Just try to seek help or get to court, and you should eventually get to live with your dad. My name is Jake.
We moved about 1 hour away from where we used to live so I rarely get to keep in touch with any of my old friends. I want to tell my dad that he treats me like a piece of trash. He always yells at me or gets mad every time I see him. In public and at home he will grab my neck really hard right on the pressure point so I scream to get him off. He tells my 16 year old brother that it is ok to do this to me too so I always have bruises. He is trying to make me see all the bad in her but all I see is the bad in him. Even my step-mom that lives with my dad is a witch to me. My mom is super nice to me and cares for me.
But you still are, then you could easily get full custody with her. Try to get to court and explain what your dad is doing to you. Most of the time, staff members who work at the school teachers, counselors, janitors, etc. They will help you too! Just please, you need to get out of that house. You need a better environment and your brother needs to not listen to your dad. Your dad and step mom could actually be arrested for what they do to you. So I hope things get better!
If your mom or dad is nice to you and has a normal stable life, and the other parent will not let you see them there can be several reasons 1. The parent that currently has custody does not want to lose money they get from the other parent for you being in their house which is really your money and they should not be spending it on bills not related to you 2. The parent is using you as a friend or for support, which as a kid it is not your job 3. The parent is punishing the other parent and wants you to ignore or not see the parent to hurt them 4.
The parent is controlling and needs to have life on their terms 5. The parent needs you to heal them because they are not healthy on their own, which is not OK. All of these things are child abuse. They are not OK. As a child, you are free and it is right that you access both of your parents as much as you want. Parents who are not OK with that are using you as a pawn and that is not OK.
It is not your job to heal your parents or worry about their feelings. They are adults, it is their job to worry about you. As a kid, you should be protected by adults around you and adults around you should not lean on you for emotional support. You are not a paycheck, a counselor or a parent. Im happier with my mom and she takes better care of me emotionally and physically.
What can i do?? He lies to me and is a very big ass. And my mom says that I have to speak to a judge and I will if I must but I was wondering if there are any other ways of staying with my mom full time. My mother has two other kids, my two sisters, making her very busy. My father drinks and smokes but smokes outside only and drinks very lightly, not enough to get even tipsy off of. Any suggestions on what I should do to try and move in?
My father does want me to move in as well. And even with the thought of friends, living with my father would still be better for me. I live with my dad but he is making my life crap. On top of that i am no longer allowed on any electronic outside of school. You failed to explained why you are not allowed on any electronic [sic] outside of school.
Otherwise, this is call parenting and, for a 16 year old following rules, sucks! Recently my step dad died in a tragic car accident witch left my mom on her knees. The day after this happened my dad decided it would be good to file custody papers for court on my mom. My mom has custody of me. My step-dad treats me and my older sister like his own kids, and my mom is the best mom I could ever ask for. But the worst part is the way he and my stupid step-mom got married.
He met her when I was about 5, and they dated for about 2 months, then broke up for 3. They would get back together, then break up again. This cycle repeated for about 6 years. No joke. Then one night, we got a call from him. The next day, we had to go see him. Funny, huh? And he knows we hate her. Me and my brother and sister live with my mum so mt dad has no-one and i am the oldest and im 12 then my sister is 6 and my brother is 2. I am 13 I can decide where I wanna live but no not according to him. My sister which is 16 hates him so much she refuses to see him or even say she has a father.
But I can not take this drama with court anymore! The same. No joke my dad is an ass. My mom is the best. And I just need a way to my moms custody. What should i do my mom is so far from me who will i choese my dad or my mom? If i live with my dad i will have a new mom and i dont want that! And if i luve with my mom i will live in hindi and i will never see my dad forever.
So ehat ahould i do pleaseee help me!!! My parents are basically going through this phase right now, and I really want to live with my dad because he treats me better. Is there anyone who can give advice on both of those? I just want to live at one of my friends house my mom also makes me have anxiety.
I am 15 years old and I am in highschool. My mother and father divorced whenever I was very young. Through out my life my mothers had custody of me. I was put through the most , the people that hung around were on heavy drugs. Meth etc.. So was my stepfather. My mom also was. I would lock myself in my room as you do as I was and cry myself to sleep. The people whom were on drugs were all very crazy.
Near the age 11 all of those people decided to cut the cameras to our house and broke into our house. They stole all of our belongings including pictures of me. They shattered all of the windows and busted holes in all of the walls. My mother moved a state away without my fathers permission.
I was very upset. And as I reached my middle school years I went through heavy depression. I used to cut , I tried to kill myself a couple times.. Things are okay but my mom and stepdad have been acting very off lately they bruised my arms one day and I had to wear a hoodie to school until it went away. He understands and listens to me. Something my mother never would do. She makes me feel as if I am not good enough. Recently she told me that I was a mistake and she wish she hadnt had me.
I rarely get to see him , ever. I seen my father about 7 months ago for a VERY short period of time. How could I be able to live with my Amazing father? My dad just got out of prison for murdering my aunt. Is there anyway I could move in with my bestfriend? Just please let me know if I can love with my bestfriend and my basically adopted family and adopted parents. My moms been doing okay lately I just really need to know please.. My mom had custody of me since I was three then when I was around 12 my sister turned 18 and moved out of the house and guess what my dad did not have to pay child support for her then all of the sudden he hired a lawyer and got custody of me.
My dad is the definition of an ass hole. He makes me feel like crap all the time. You have no idea. I am afraid to rise against him because I am afraid of what he will do. I love my mom so much. I want to live with her but my dad will put up a fight. He is so mean. His wife treats me like a worthless piece of crap too.
Can I choose who Ii want to live with? My moms been abusing and yelling and locking me out my house. And when I have to do something he constantly degrades my overall wellbeing. What would be the first step in switching custody??? My family is kinda complicated because first my mom and dad had me and then they had my little brother.
So then my mom found someone else and he already had a child that was older then me. And then they had my youngest brother. After that my dad and his wife had my little sister so I have a very complicated life. My dad and my step mom have more money then my mom and stepdad but I really want to live with my mom and also my step dad treats me with respect and cares about me. So the only grandma I have is my nana cuz I still talk to her through my mom.
But I think the reason I act out is because I want attention from my parents and tbh I think the best person for me to live with my nana f I rally had the choice. What should I do?? This is a serious situation. I would get help from people at school, your counselor, a professional, or anybody! My parents are also divorced and I dont have to big of a probelm but I know how you feel. Just get help. I feel you…. I can relate to that a lot.
My Dad will do anything for his wifey. AKA, my step mom. She loves kids who are like 5 and 4 because she never had kids but every time I go around my dad she will get so close to him. I can never have a conversation with him without her being right there judging. The thing is though is that my dad makes more money than my mom does. And she cant afford a lawyer. My nanna also asked me to live with her because shes a millionaire but she lives in Amish county and I am afraid i would never see my siblings.
Hi my name is David. I am 15 years old and my parents divorced when I was seven. Lately I have been getting in trouble more and more with my stepmom. She is angry at my dad and basically everything else but takes it out on me. I am so done with her crap. I love my dad tho and want to see him but I hate my stepmom. But if I do that then I am afraid that it will ruin my relationship with my dad.
My parents split up when I was 8 and I moved out when I was 9. It was fine for a few months. But then I realized after a lot of arguments no, I hate living with my Mum and her partner. He understands me more than my mother. It feels like I have to choose between them… And I want to. I choose my dad. How could I see my dad more? I am 14 years old and I want to move with my dad in Arizona. I have lived with my mom since they split up when I was about 2. If I was to ask her to take me to the court she would start an arguement out of it and I could possibly get in trouble.
What do I do if I cannot get her to take me to the court house? My parents divorced when I was 8 months old and my mum remarried when I was 9 years old. My stepfather had stopped us from speaking to my father and would cut the phone everyone he phoned and I was too young to understand. I started speaking to my father agin for about two years but my mom always made problems and we often fight.
However i have been going back and forth for 4 or 5 years between my mum and dad and before this i lived with my mum. My 18 year old brother died 6 months ago in a head-on collision and i came to live with my mum 4 months ago. This makes me feel really down. I am able to move because ive finished secondary school and i am unable to go to college at the moment.
I have also been given the option to go into care. Hi my name is mkayla i live with my mama. My dad and his wife wants me to come live with them. My mama says i cant go. Do i have a choice in where i go; im 15 turning 16 soon? I live in Tennessee my mom as sole custody of me I only see my dad every other weekend he lives only 30 minutes away from me. I want to be able to spend equal time with my perents but my mom refuses to let me. She says he will have to take her back to court to get joint custody of me. My name is Sam Baker.
I am 15 years old. My Mom and Dad split up and I lived with my Mom. Then my Mom got cancer and she was in the hospital and my dad got custody of me until my Mom got better. Then my Dads lawyer plaid my mom dirty to keep me away from my mom. My Mom on the other hand has only two kids with a great paying job so that she can take care of us.
And my Mother has tried to make a court date but my dad wont accept. How do I live with my Mom. Listen man — Court is court. I am 16 years of age in the state of Washington and my parents are divorced. My mothers wife drinks whenever she has days off and gets into large scale arguments with my mom that end up in lots of yelling and threats. These have gotten ugly and I no longer feel safe here anymore. Do I have enough of a case to stay with just my dad? Do I have a choose? Im 15 my dad lives in another state my mom and dad split when i was a baby and i live with my mom but im not happy with her here and i want to move in with my dad what can i do i was told u can talk to a guidance counselor.
Im 16 and I want to live with my dad more. Is their anything I can do to change this and if so how. My parents are divorced. I live with both of them,each half and half. I would really like to live full time with my mom,because my dad verbally abuses me im 13 , 14 in like 2 weeks And my brother he is What should i do. Everyday when I talk to my mom I know she loves me and would do anything for and I trust her and could tell her anything.
So im 16 and i want to go live with a friend without getting emancipated my dad says its fine iv just moved to his house 9 months ago and my mom is the only thing in the way 10 years ago she got full rights over me now i want to give my dad full rights and i dont want her im my life anymore she has a abuseve husban and he is verbally abuseive to me… How much will it coast to change the parenting plan and if i tell the judge that i want him to have full cusdity will he say yes. Hi I need help. Since then my dad got married to someone else he also got parental responsibility for and I see him during holidays.
I now want to live with my Dad. What should I do??? My mom has primary custody and I never see my dad. I want to live with my dad. My mom is always stressed out yelling and breaking things. Im 15 and I have lived with my mom my whole life. I have never even stayed with my father since I was a baby. Every time I mention my father or talk to his family on social media she yells at me stating that my step father has been there for me. And if I want to meet my father so much then I should just go live with him. Well things came up an she took in my 2 cousins now we have 7 kids in the house hold.
Things are to hectic or crazy for me and she is always stressed out and yells a lot.
I just want to know if there is a possible way that I can go live with my biological father? My 14 year has decided that she wants to live with me but she has been with her father since she was two and I need some advice how to get the custody change without costing me an arm an leg for lawyers and court and also wanting to know if I can get this done without a lawyer in Chattanooga Tennessee.
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My parents have been divorced for about four years now and my parents thought it was best for me to live with my mom, and up till now I feel as though everything my mom has done has been for my stepdad who makes me feel like a freak. And he just laughs at me. Like I am some hopeless case that can never be fixed. He yelled at my mom that same morning and I feel as though he hates us all. As a fourteen year old. What do I do plzzzzz help Btw I want to be with my mom and family that lives by here. My mom and I got stronger in the last couple months and my dad and I got worst.
My mom is going to jail for 18 months, I have shared custody with my mom and dad. Now that my mom is leaving I want to stay with my nana my moms mom every other week. Well my dad is not allowing that. I have lived with my mom ever since and we have a really good relationship. I love her so much. I also live in the middle of nowhere and my dad lives in the city. I feel so isolated from the world and I hate my town, school and home life. Now that my dad is a recovering alcoholic I want to live with him. Life at his house would be so much better. The only thing stopping me is actually telling my mom.
You have to tell her especially if she still is getting drunk. Will she be hurt probably but she will always live you. My dad says that he is going to ask around to see if its legal to just come pick me up, because no one has legal custody of me…. I know how your feeling. What you feel in your heart is what you feel. If you still want to live with your dad. Do it. If you want to live with your mom and have to go to court to get what you want, fight for it.
Listen to what you want. Wright down what their saying and weigh that on your choices. Make a list of pros and cons for each parent. Give him the basics and then make sure he know that you are there for him and everything will turn out ok. I am 16 and I have 7 little siblings. I want to move to my dads. I already mentioned it to my mom.
My parents have been arguing a lot and my mom has been threatening my dad that he should leave. I just want to know everything that I can know and my rights in the divorce if it ever happens. My mom is planning on leaving my dad and she wants me to live with her but I want to live with my dad.
Im 13 o dislike my step dad only bc i get in trouble for everything and he favors my brother over me i am constantly stressed at my moms bc i get in trouble for the most unintellegent way like i triped on a step and got in trouble. I live with my mom but I visit my dad once or twice a month and he is demanding for me to go over there and I do not want to because we have been butting heads. Also she would know where I was?
Tina, I think that if you ran she cannot do anything as you are 18 at the Legal age of being an Adult she cannot consult you as your at the age of adult. Hi I am keyera. My dad give me space and super cool while my mom is nosy and would slap me. So if I show this to my mom will it give her some thought in mind. Hi I am Lani. Please help me move with my daddy in illinois. In my situation I stay with my dad on Thursdays and every other weekend from Thursday to Sunday. The rest of the time I stay with my mom.
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I want to stay with my mom all of the time. I have really bad anxiety about school, homework, sports, and pretty much life in general. Having to pack up my life and move every week really stresses me out. Also, sometimes my dad, sister, and I go out to dinner, but nobody told me of the plans, so when I get back home I have no time to do my homework, much less relax or watch some tv. My dad and I also fight a lot. This also gives me a lot of stress.
His personality really aggravates me. He just bothers me for a lot of reasons. I spend His house is also not great. He is always out of the house, too. My dad also acts like everything he does is so great. He always brags about he drove me to school that one time I take the bus, but it was in the negative temperatures, so I asked for a ride , how he drives my friends and I everywhere, how he pays for all of our clothes when my mom actually pays for everything , and just how great he is to us.
Constantly switching living arrangements gives me lots of anxiety. Is there a way that I could change my current situation into one that better suits my needs as a growing adolescent? My father has legal custody of me. I have not seen my mother for around seven years. But I want to live with her now. I have Ben talking to her recently, just not seen her in person. I just hate my home life with my father. I have a stable job, and he takes all of my paychecks.
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I do not get any of them. I just want to live with my mom. Can I up and leave when I turn 17? Will the court need to be involved? I just turned 16 on March 19th. My parents divorced in June I think? Possibly December.
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And I asked them both if I had a say into where I would live and they just avoided the question. Biggest question to me is, can and do I have a right to? I have no idea where to start. I am 14 years old my parents got a divorce when i was one and my dad got full custody and i only got to see my mom every other weekend but 3 years ago dad changed it didnt go to court or anything he just said my sister and i can see mom every other week and all of a sudden he tell me i cant see her its going back to the everyother weekend and i hate it i feel depressed and i just wanna cry i love my mom more than dad, because i cant stand his wife and hes not a dad to me i wanna live with mom.
But she is trying really hard!!! I want to live with her because my grandmother yells at me and my siblings. I am 14 and in April I will be 15 my mom has custody of me and my dad has visitation rights every other weekend and two weeks during the summer. My mom and dad was divorced before I was even born. Well I called my dads lawyer and his lawyer said that I can Live with my dad with I want to? My brother and I see my dad on the weekends. My mom got remarried and my dad lives alone in a one bedroom apartment. I can tell it hurts him and I always feel terrible about it.
How can confront him about these feelings? Can I move yet Ohkay so I lived with my mom for two years. Then I moved with my dad last year and it was all good at first! Then lately me and my dad have been fighting back and forth for like the last two months. When my sister does something he blames me for it. And now my mom beginning of i met my dad for my first time and i wanted to wait tell i was 18 but it happened so quickly.
But my mom has full custody and my great grandparents have Guardianship. This past week i told my great grandpa i want to live with my real dad. I wanna be with him. Ive never liked my mom in general because she is so rude and disresepctful to me and she has abused me several times she pullef me by my hair into her house and then we got into a bloody fistfight and she broke my nose and my stepdad slammed me into the wall several timez and i told my dad i want 2 live with him and he said when he gets custody over me cause my mom and dad were never married when they had me so does it cost money for my dad to get full custody over me and keep me away from my mom for good and have no contact at all with my mom?
My parents have been divorced since I was 2. During summer I am there even more, Tuesday and Wednesdays nights, and of course every other weekend. Him and his wife that he married after my mom my stepmom had a kid when I was 7 so he is 7 years younger than me so of course everything is about him.
My stepmom and dad also argue constantly and my dad is always on the phone. He is either on the phone with work or something about baseball and it really hurts when I can barely say bye to him some mornings because he is on the phone. Should me and my mom contact the master to eliminate me seeing him?
My court date is tomorrow So my court date is tomorrow, July 3rd , and my mom has custody of my two sisters and I. We have experienced child abuse since we were super little, like yanking our hair, pushing us towards walls, slapping us repeatedly, and kicking us while we are down.
I am thirteen right now, I have a 15 and 11 year old sister. She buys food once every 2 weeks and our house has 8 people living in it. She put a lock on the fridge do it is impossible to get food when i come back from school and i absolutely loathe having dinner with her because she is always fighting with us along with her husband.
But all he does is lie right now I am at my aunts house and waiting for the order. They will probably twist us into a more terrible lie and tell it in court. I need help with this ASAP. Hopefully, my dad gets custody already. They share valuable life lessons and inspire us in many ways. One of the best opportunities to express your love and appreciation for your dad is on his birthday. A father is a wonderful combination of strength, warmth, kindness, laughter, and love.
Parents are the most important people in our lives and we should enjoy every minute spent with them. Here is the best collection of happy birthday mom and lastly, you can check birthday wishes images. If you are searching for the happy birthday meme and quotes to share with your family members and make them smile… look no further! Words are powerful tools and placed correctly together; they can be formed to show love. Wish your father a very happy, blessed birthday with any of these wonderful birthday wishes for dad:.
In the end you should write from your heart, so just relax about finding the perfect words and write something short, simple, and true. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. When You're Old With Dentures Dad you are the very best, So I've got something to suggest, One day I'll take care of you, When you're old with dentures too, And when your age has lots of zeros, Then you will still be my hero!
A collection of happy fathers day poems from a son to his dad, describing how a son can see his dad as a hero, and how they hope to grow up to be just like their dad! Great to write from a preschooler or young child. Generous Dad I think you are the greatest dad, You're generous all day long, So won't you lend me 50 bucks, And prove that I'm not wrong?
No, it's not in my diaper, But that needs changing, too! I have a poem to let you know How lucky Mommy and I are, Because when it comes to daddies, You really are a star! Thanks for taking care of me With cuddles and silly songs. Thanks for settling me back to sleep, The nights they can be long. One day I'll be big like you, And strong and smart and brave.
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If there was an award for the best father ever Then I'm sure you would have won. You've always encouraged me with my art, And took interest in the crazy things I drew, You've taught me to never give up on myself, And you've shown me that any dream can come true. Thank you for being my personal taxi. Maybe dad stands for "dad always drives. Thank you for all your kindness these years, You've wiped tears and snot from my face, You've put up with mood swings and heartbreaks, You're arms are my safe place.
You've been my support, Through good time and bad, I feel lucky indeed To have you as my dad! You're my real action hero dad, You're what I want to be, You are the ultimate superhero, You're a superhero to me! Thanks For Believing In Me I needed to have someone on my side, Someone who was loving and true, I had to know that I mattered to someone, One of those someone's is you. Because you always believed in me, I came to believe in me too, You built my strength and confidence, To see the tough times through.
Thank you dad for believing in me, Thank you for taking my side, Through all the ups and downs of life, And every bumpy ride. You not only taught me the everyday things, Like washing my hands and tying a shoe, But also to deal with what life brings; You've shaped my values and world view. You've been there whenever I needed, You've helped in many a way, Whether fixing something broken, Or knowing just what to say.
I always know I can count on you, That's a matter of fact. For that countless other things, I love you to the moon and back. Most of all, I'm grateful, And my heart is truly glad, That today and every single day, I have you as my Dad. In fact, You did so much more, You've made life exciting And never a bore.
Whenever I was discouraged, Or lazy or stressed, You pepped me up and Told me to do my best. So thank you for everything That you've done, It's time to celebrate How far we've come! Happy father's day!